"He never got upset, never got angry," said the neighbor, who did not want to be identified. "He took care of his kids and his wife. He was a great father."
Gerfin married Deborah DeCosta in 1988, and became close with his wife's family, who all gathered at her house after hearing of the death. His three daughters, Meagan, Kelly, and Laura, were the great love and light in his life, according to friends and family.
Gerfin also leaves a grandson, Camron; his father, Melvin Sr., and his father's wife, Ann; and three sisters, Janet Rybicki of Groton, Conn., Joyce Adams of Kutztown, Pa., and Terry Roberts of West Melbourne, Fla.
A memorial service was held yesterday.
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